doesthatmakeme
Nagaland

Worth visiting!

i remember, i *grin*

Lived in the cantt. area as a child. My father was posted out after I turned 7.

Brings back some vivid memories of my ‘tiny-me’ life there, some instances being -

- walking all the way home from school (Spicer Elementary) in Kirkee; being picked up on the way by the driver; not speaking a word; and finally bursting into tears as soon as I see Mom.

- doing the silent act once again during a school function where the entire class sang and a boy and I had to simply do the ‘acting’.

- the whole family (Dad, Mom, and us 3 kids) on the Enfield (Yezdi) on our way to wherever…, with middle bro sitting on the petrol tank, holding on to the handlebars like he was driving, littlest me on Mom’s lap, and eldest bro at the back clinging on to Mom for dear life. :)

- attending the pujas in the cantt.’s temples and gorging on the ‘prasad’ offered there.

- being bitten on the chest by another little girl while we fought over a doll’s pram. (Still have the bite marks…)

- being chased by our abnormally aggressive pet rooster, ‘Bruce Lee’, while playing Cowboys and Injuns; circling the house twice – all the while screaming out for Mom, dear Mom – before I find an open door & bros chase Lee away. Oh how I howled that day too!! :)

- the open-air movies; hiding our faces behind our parents’ backs when some terrifying fight scene was on.

- good ol’ Richie, our Lhasa Apso, who was ever loyal and lived with us for almost a decade.

Would love to go back, if only to see my old home.
And maybe, make new memories…


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quadzero
Kansas City

Fond Memories

I am happy that you remember fond memories with your family… that is a precious gift.

My own childhood was a nightmare. My father was mentally unstable and quite violent with my mother and us (5) kids. I have had to move on from that terrible experience, and get on with my own life. I have refused to allow that to ruin my own life and the life of my wife (26 years) and kids (3 boys 24, 22 and 15).

My wife and I were committed in creating happy memories with our three sons. We were successful I believe. Even though we never had much money while our boys were young we still were creative in doing fun (free/inexpensive) things with them.

Hopefully you too will be thoughtful in creating happy memories with your own children.

Blessings!

doesthatmakeme
Nagaland

Saddened to hear about your childhood. (I don’t know if I would have survived what you’ve had to go through.)

But ultimately it’s not what your past has been, but what you make of your present and future. A privileged life doesn’t always guarantee a happy future…

I’m glad that you and your wife have done a good job with your life.

And I hope I manage to create happy memories with my children if, and when, I have them. :)

Warm regards.

quadzero
Kansas City

Thanks for the kind words...

You so very correct when you say:

“But ultimately it’s not what your past has been, but what you make of your present and future.”

Blessings to you!

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Curmudgeon
Los Angeles

Delightful list of remembrances

I especially like the enduring bite marks. You’ve given me an idea for another 43places series, wherein I write an entry about each scar I still bear. I would begin with those I have from falling, while trying to climb the (rusty) barbed wire fence that separated The James House from the pasture that housed a bull. I was about 5. My older brother and I were trying to escape my mother, who was about to drive us to the county health clinic in town one summer day for our routine immunizations. Apparently, the bull seemed less threatening than the hypodermic. Clumsy in our haste, we both slipped. Due to punctures and open wounds from the barbed wire, we had to get stitches and tetanus shots, in addition to the injections we were already going for!

doesthatmakeme
Nagaland

ouch! that must've hurt..

love your story. :)
i’ve even been picturing (quite dramatically, i admit) the two of you scrambling over the barbed wires towards a very surprised bull while your mother tries to catch up. :D

i like your idea of keeping an account of each scar that we bear. i do have quite a few ‘battle scars’ myself. i used to be one clumsy girl… hehe!


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