Tokyo...fantastic, but not for everyone. by jsfab

So, I lived in Tokyo for almost two years. Given, I was in other places for nearly half of that time. It’s great, it’s annoying, it’s fun, but can be sedate. Just about everyone I know who has lived here (females anyway) don’t say that they adore it. Men, and women who are into Japanese guys absolutely love it here. There are tons of things to do and places to see. I never had time to get to everything I wanted to do. I would have spent more time out, but I just couldn’t stand to hear “iraishamasse” over and over again everywhere I went. I couldn’t bear the clicking of a thousand bow-legged girls in heels stomping around on the sidewalk. I think that a lot of foreigners come here with misconceptions: it is not the fuedal Japan that you see in movies and it is not just rows and rows of beautiful zen gardens and temples. It’s mostly just a concrete jungle full of bland, bleak buildings that all look the same. If you are lucky enough to live within the Yamanote line, you have easy access to just about anything in the city. If you have the grave misfortune of living out in the suburbs, be prepared for hours of time spent smashed on the trains against drunk businessmen.

Now, on to the good things. Efficiency and customer service. There is something to be said for the quick and consistent service that you can invariably recieve in Japan. No matter where I have been in the country, I always am greeted when I enter most establishments. Sometimes by every single employee. If I ever ask for something, someone will literally run to get it for me. Even in a gas station, you will get a very enthusiastic greeting and top of the line service. Try getting that in the states! Most people in menial service positions in America will treat you as if you owe them something, not the other way around.

And, oh… I could go on and on about sushi. I adore it and will miss it more than anything else here.

So, there, that’s it. There are so many good and bad things about this place. I tried really hard to love it. I explored, I learned, I even took Japanese, but I realized it just wasn’t for me. So, I’m moving back to Europe!

over 7 years ago

Comments:

shizentai

shizentai
London

My thoughts exactly...

Hey, I really liked your post on Tokyo and I totally agree with your comments. I also lived in Tokyo for some time; it takes a while to really “get” the city, I think. And there is so much to love and hate about it! It is such an intriguing culture, and there is so much to discover, but it is difficult to penetrate totally, and would you even want to, right? When away from Tokyo, I miss the efficiency, the courtesy, the convenience stores, the food, the anonymity, the inoffensiveness, and the “wabisabi” of old Japan. But I don’t miss the mickey mouse voices, the tottering, and the passivity, restraint, and conformist, “herd mentality” aspects. I guess there are two sides to every coin, though. :) Good luck in Europe or wherever your travels take you!


Koji Taneda

Koji Taneda
Kashiwa

Yeah...

I’m done with Tokyo. People are so materialistic. Not many are enjoying life, too hard on themselves…

I made a group:

http://www.43places.com/groups/view/15122

See I’m from Kinki and I get along with the people over there much better, you know its kinda like the West Coast people and East Coast people in the States.

I love the countryside in Japan, but unlike in US and Europe, most people refuse enjoy the country living, and sometimes look down on the country people. And it is true that living cost in Japan is still hella expensive out in the country, and they make far less money than people in Tokyo.

Talking about Tokyo, I wish it looked more like Rome or other historical cities.

Tokyo needs more historical buildings from like Meiji, Japanese gardens, and more of those historical attractions that 100s years of history they got can offer.


jsfab

jsfab
Louisville

Well, I guess if it weren’t for that whole World War Two thing, it would have retained its former glory. I wish I could have seen Tokyo prior to the firebombing…


Koji Taneda

Koji Taneda
Kashiwa

But you know,

I realized, Osaka or Nagoya aren’t old fashioned either…

Kyoto and Nara might be the only ones left…

Although Sendai and Sapporo are beautiful.

I hear Fukuoka and Hakodate are too.

Hiroshima is interesting in many ways.

I wish we would start conserving the city like Roma did.

Have fun back in Europe!

Koji


Koji Taneda

Koji Taneda
Kashiwa

Old Tokyo

Check This Out!

This is how Old Tokyo looked like:

http://www.OldTokyo.com



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