I’m undecided on the lipstick kisses issue.
It’s one thing to leave a message for Oscar Wilde, saying how he changed your life, made you happy, whatever.
It’s another completely to desecrate a grave. Lipstick kisses look nice, but the greasy marks left when the colour gets rained off do not. I LOVE YOU scrawled in black marker pen… it just made me feel a bit uncomfortable.
I have the utmost respect for Oscar Wilde, so I did not mark his tomb.