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svanes
Copenhagen

kristiansand is a small and charming town but i don’t think it is worth a seperate trip – unless you have ample time to explore the archipelago near kristiansand – home to thousands of charming summerhouses, many of them perched on the edge of fjords or small islands. but you definitely can’t do that in one day.

my family has a summerhouse in this area, off of the inland passage called blindleia – and i love it.

that said, given your options, i would take an extra day in stavanger and save yourself the energy and expense of traveling south.

thank you so much for your input! i was talking this over with hubby last night, and i think we are going to try to stay an extra day in stavanger. thanks again!